4 Tips Make People Like You Easily

So maybe we have a lot of friends, but we feel they don’t like you ? if answer is yes, could be this become solution for us.

TIPS  # 1 APPRECIATION

When we meet our friend, ask ourselves “ what is the good things I could admire from this person ?”.  There must be one or two good thing in every person. Could be their clothes, the way they talking, behavior, anything.  We just need training for it, just observe people, we could find a good things one or two. Most people not focus in their observation, that’s why they have a few friends like them or not at all.  But, we must remember, give them honest appreciation.

TIPS # 2 MAKE YOUR FRIENDS IMPORTANT 

Observe for a while my friends. Every person we know that have many friends like them  always make their friends “important”. That’s why they liked by their friends. Write and remember your friends birthday could be a good start. I already try it. Try it. We do promise their gonna like you soon, if we do it from heart and consistently. Think like this, “ Treated like you want to be treated”

“Treated like you want to be treated”

TIPS # 3 POLITE 

 Be polite to everyone, even if they’re waitress or maid in your home.  Do you remember when we go to restaurant or cafe ? most people treated them like nobody. Why don’t we treated them with politeness ? A little expression like “would you mind to…”, “ Excuse me…..”, would you be kind enough to…. “ A little expression like that will make us be liked, because we give them a respect.

TIPS # 4 THEIR INTEREST 

When we go meet our friends, probably they doing their hobby or their interest. Ask them many question about it,  “ how about this ? “, “ how about that ?”, “ what do you think if… ? “. A simple question like that will give us higher response from our friends. Suddenly, “visiting friend” agenda from 1 hour become 3 hour or more.

I do this tips for many friends, the result is very-very good. One of best experience i’ve ever had is with my friend who like to cook. When I went to her place, she’s cooking a noodle with special spices made by herself. So I did exactly like this. I ask her what exactly this spices made from, how do you made it, can you use this spice on another food, something like that. You know what ? She’s invite me to dinner, introduced her family and friends, she gave me a lot of “free” good spices. One of my friends become my business partner. And we’re still good friends until now. So you got many benefit when we do this tips.

Alright. We hope this article will bring good for all of us.

Thank You.